Mindset Matters
Through this blog, I share the lessons, practices, and strategies that empower my clients—so you can find guidance, encouragement, and support too.
What Is “Healthy,” Really? Reclaiming a Word That Feels So Heavy
In this blog, we explore a more compassionate definition of health — one rooted in flexibility, values, and choices that actually support your body and mind. Learn how nourishment, movement, rest, and emotional safety work together to create a sustainable, shame-free approach to wellness.
Taking Care of Yourself Isn’t Selfish — It’s Essential
So many of us give everything we have to others — until we’re running on empty. This post explores why taking care of yourself first isn’t selfish, it’s essential. Learn how self-care helps you stay grounded, balanced, and truly present for the people you love.
Plan Ahead to Protect Your Peace: Preventing Holiday Burnout Before It Starts
Feeling stretched thin by holiday plans? Learn how to plan ahead, protect your peace, and make space for self-care so you can actually enjoy the season.
Getting Unstuck: Science-Backed Tips for Pulling Yourself Out of Depression
Feeling stuck in depression can make even simple things—like getting out of bed or texting a friend—feel impossible. This post shares 7 realistic, research-supported steps to help you move through depression, rebuild energy, and reconnect with hope at your own pace.
From Scarcity to Abundance: How Shifting Your Mindset Changes Everything
Do you often feel there’s never enough time, money, or opportunity? That’s the scarcity mindset at work. In this post, we’ll explore what scarcity and abundance mindsets really mean, how they shape your emotional and physical well-being, and small steps you can take to start thinking — and living — from abundance.
3 Tips for Setting (and Keeping) Healthy Boundaries
Boundaries aren’t walls—they’re bridges to healthier relationships.
Check out this blog on how to set and keep boundaries that align with your values and protect your peace.
Pause and Choose: How to Respond Instead of React
We can’t always control our first thought—but we can control our second. In this blog, K8 Therapy explores how the Pause and Choose tool helps you slow down, regulate emotions, and respond intentionally instead of reacting automatically. Learn how small pauses can create powerful shifts in awareness and behavior.
The Power of Boredom: How Embracing Downtime Can Boost Your Creativity and Emotional Resilience
Boredom isn’t a flaw—it’s a tool. Discover how embracing moments of low stimulation can spark creativity, build patience, and improve self-awareness.
Reframing Your Mindset: How to Break Free From Thoughts That Hold You Back
Your thoughts shape your brain’s pathways—and your life. Discover how to reframe limiting beliefs, create new thought patterns aligned with your values, and strengthen them through daily repetition, writing, and speaking them aloud.
The Power of Journaling in Therapy: Creating Space to Heal and Grow
Journaling is more than writing down your thoughts—it’s a powerful tool to support therapy, process emotions, and shift your mindset. This post explores the benefits of journaling in therapy and offers simple tips to get started, even if writing isn’t your favorite activity.
The Bookshelf and Spotlight Visualization: A Practical OCD Coping Skill
Intrusive thoughts can feel overwhelming with OCD, but you don’t have to fight every thought. In this post, you’ll learn how the Bookshelf and Spotlight visualization works, follow a guided script, and see how it can be used alongside ERP therapy to manage OCD.
The Power of Choice: How to Pause and Reframe Restrictive and Emotional Eating
Recovery begins with realizing that you have the power of choice. In this blog, we explore how reframing thoughts, practicing the “Pause and Choose” tool, and reclaiming language around health can open the door to freedom, empowerment, and lasting change.
Reclaiming Autonomy: My Approach to Healing Disordered Eating
Discover an anti-diet, values-based approach to disordered eating recovery. Learn how interoception, autonomy, and self-trust can help you build a healthier relationship with food and body.
Understanding Interoception: A Therapist’s Guide to Improving Anxiety, Depression, and Emotional Health
Interoception — your body’s ability to sense internal signals — is a powerful tool for managing anxiety, depression, disordered eating, and emotional health. Learn how strengthening your mind-body connection can improve emotional regulation, reduce stress, and support lasting well-being.
The Next Conversation by Jefferson Fisher — A Therapist’s Perspective
Therapist’s perspective on Jefferson Fisher’s The Next Conversation, with practical communication tips, boundaries, and emotional intelligence lessons.
Words of Affirmation vs. External Validation: How to Tell the Difference (And Why It Matters for Your Mindset)
Discover the difference between affirmation and validation, how each impacts your mindset, and why understanding this can improve self-worth, resilience, and emotional well-being.
How to Stop People-Pleasing Without Feeling Guilty
Learn how to stop people-pleasing without guilt. Discover healthy boundary-setting tips from a therapist to build self-worth and say no with confidence.
How to Use Detached Observation & Ride the Wave to Cope with Intense Emotions
Struggling with overwhelming emotions? Learn how to use two powerful therapy tools—Detached Observation and Ride the Wave—to manage anxiety, stress, and emotional intensity. This guide breaks down each technique and shows how they work separately and together to help you stay grounded, respond instead of react, and feel more in control of your inner world.
Learning to See, Not Judge: How to Use Detached Observation to Heal Body Image Struggles
In this therapist-written guide, learn how to use detached observation to reduce self-critical thoughts and improve your relationship with your body. A supportive resource for those healing from body image issues or eating disorders.
The Depth Chart: Understanding “Not Good Enough” from Surface to Core
We all have moments when we feel “not good enough.” But when surface-level disappointments or comparisons start to define your identity, they create deeper wounds. In this blog, a therapist breaks down how to keep setbacks and self-doubt from sinking into your core.